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真正的智慧来自内在 Wisdom comes from within

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生活中,很多人会通过购物、旅行、读书、辞职、换工作、改变生活方式和感情来填补内心的寂寞和空洞。这些方法可以暂时缓解,可是时间久了,回到了现实,焦虑、恐惧、不安仍然存在。很多人急切得寻找捷径找寻人生的意义所在。大多数,我们都在对外寻求,而没有选择停下来、呼吸、聆听自己内心的声音。

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和内心对话,试想自己最想要的生活是什么样子的。也许你暂时找不到,没有关系,我曾经也和你一样,用了10年的时间去寻找,10年的时间我尝试了很多不喜欢的工作,或者我以为我喜欢,结果做了才知道自己不喜欢或者根本不合适。不合适是因为我做的事和我的天赋不符合。

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真正活出自己精彩的人很少,拥抱新的体验,将觉知由恐惧转变为爱,更好的了解自己并且创造有意义的关系,甚至了解你为什么要做现在你所做的事情,最终拥有选择的自由。当你拥有意愿和一颗充满爱的心时,宇宙会将所有碎片连接,让你成为人生的主人。像科学家进行实验一样,好奇、认真、不断深入地探索和学习自我这门知识;像艺术家尽享创作一样,以雕琢、珍惜和欣赏的眼光来创作自己;像最温柔的爱人一般,包容、陪伴、信任并喜爱自己。
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我以前在德高机场工作的时候一直在想: 难道我的人生使命就是卖广告大牌吗?不管我卖得如何,我每个月销售指标达标后获得的提成的”成就感” 无法给予我内心想要的喜悦感,只有当我把金钱转换成机票或者一场长途旅行时,我才会开心。

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现在的我在路上走了五年了,谈了几段长距离且见少离多的感情,原来以为一直旅行在路上是人生终极目标,可以为此放弃所有,如今觉得找到一个人生伴侣/知己,一起打造事业,一起闯荡江湖,财富时间无限自由,建立一个国际团队和社区,才是我的终极人生乐趣,独乐乐不如众乐乐!

原来幸福和快乐来自内在,而外在的一切都是内在的镜子和显化而已。这场旅程充满了无尽的奇幻冒险和同步性,当我内在发生改变的时候,所有事情也开始改变,以下是我最近学习和总结的30条人生哲学。

1. No one can burn your day, without your permission. 没有你的允许,没有人可以毁了你的心情
2. Most people will be as about as happy, as they decide to be. 大部人可以开心到,他们自己决定的程度
3. Others can stop you temporarily, only you can do it permanently. 别人可以暂时阻止你,但只有你可以永远阻碍你自己
4. Whatever you are willing to put up with, is exactly what you will have. 你愿意承受什么样的人生,这就是你现在拥有的人生
5. Success stops when you do. 当你停滞不前时,成功也就停止了
6. The biggest lie on the earth: “When I get what I want I will be happy” 世界上最大的谎言是:“当我拥有我想要的xx时我就会开心”
7. The best way to escape your problem is to solve it. 逃避你问题最好的方法就是解决它
8. Don’t treat Fear as your enemy, treat it as your companion because it will always be there,we have to be grateful since fear sometimes protects us from life-threatening scenario, however most of the time, it prevents us from making the right decisions when we just listen to it instead of following our heart.
不要把恐惧当成敌人,将它变成你的同伴,因为它会相伴我们一生。有时要感谢恐惧的存在,因为它让我们躲避了可能有生命威胁的事,但同时,它又会阻止我们跟随我们的心去做正确的决定。
9. Takers Lose and Givers win. 接受者是败家,而给予者是赢家
10. Life’s precious moments have no values unless they are shared. 人生最珍贵的时刻永远是那些和别人一起分享的时刻

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11. If you don’t start, it’s certain you won’t arrive. 如果你不开始,那你永远都不会抵达(你想去的地方)
12. Just do it, don’t share with others when the ideas are just ideas. First,for those who disagree with your ideas, they might wither your confidence. Second, before you succeed in making your idea into concrete actions, always talking about your ideas will make people believe you are just a talker, not a doer. 就去做吧,不要整天把你的想法告诉别人。第一,别人可能会浇灭你的自信,第二,别人在没有看到你成功地把想法转化成行动时可能会说:只是说说的吧,如果你一直只说不做,别人也就听听罢了。
13. We often fear the thing we want the most,instead of fear it, transform the energy into love and trust, it will become seeds in our consciousness and manifest into our reality when we are ready to receive it. 我们总是恐惧我们最想要的东西,将恐惧的能量转化成爱和信任,它会成为我们意识的种子,当我们准备好接收的时候,显化在我们的现实里。
14. Look for opportunities, not excuses or guarantees. 寻找机会,而不是借口和保障。
15. Present has two meanings, Now is a Gift, so is Gift, your talent is also a present from God. Present 有两个含义,现在和礼物(现在就是礼物),Gift 也有两个含义,天赋和礼物,天赋就是上帝给你的礼物。
16. Love is for giving (forgiving), not for getting (forgetting). 爱是给予(原谅),而不是获得(忘怀)。
17. Now is the most interesting time of all. 当下是最有意思的时刻
18. When things go wrong, don’t go with them. 当事情变坏的时候,不要和他们同流合污(一同变坏)
19. Sometimes the majority only means that all the ignorant people are on the same side. 有时候主流意味着一群无知的人齐心协力站在了一起。
20. A person who asks a question might be a fool for several minutes, but a person who doesn’t ask , is a fool forever. 一个人如果问了无知的问题,那么代表他无知了几分钟,但是一个人如果从来不问问题,就永远无知下去。
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21. I don’t have to attend every argument I’m invited to. 我没有必要参与每一次别人挑起的争论。
22. Our eyes are placed in front because it is more important to look ahead than to look behind. We have two ears and one mouth because we have to listen first before we talk.
我们的眼睛长在前面因为我们要向前看,而不是执着于过去。我们有两个耳朵一个嘴巴,意味着我们要先听后讲。
23. Preach what you Practice in life. 只传达你自己可以做到的事情和真理。
24. Being spiritual doesn’t mean you just give up daily life and live in the forest, It’s about being aware and mindful what you are doing in your daily life.
成为一个灵性觉醒的人不代表要放弃世俗生活到深山老林里去住,而是在世俗的生活中活出觉知来。
25. Have Big Vision, but take Small steps 有大的格局,但一步一个脚印地做事。
26. Ups and downs are the Journey of your life story, when you tell your story, you can appreciate bitter and sour because they are crucial part of your story, without them, your story sounds unreal. 起起伏伏是你人生故事的必经之路,当你分享你的故事时,你要懂得去欣赏这些起伏和痛楚,因为它们是构成你人生故事的主要部分,没有了它们,你的故事听上去很不真实。
27. People respect you because you admit what it takes for you to get there.人们尊重你是因为你承认你需要通过自己的努力(做出牺牲)才能成就你的人生。
28. Whatever comes easy goes easy too, Learn to have patience in life, delayed gratification will make you savor the fruits much better and longer. But always remember to Carpe Diem (seize the day) because we only have the NOW. It sounds paradoxical, but it’s true. 容易得到的东西也容易失去,要学会耐心,延迟的满足会让你收获的果实更加甜美,享受地更长久,但也要学会抓住当下(享受当下的美好),因为只有当下是最真实的,这好像听上去很矛盾,但这就是事实。
29. Success (Suckcess) Access to Suck=Suck is part of Success. Maintaining Success is more important than becoming successful 成功就是由各种失败组成的,敢于接受失败,承认失败就是成功的组成部分,成功不难,难在如何保持可以一直成功下去。
30. Learn to prioritize your passions. Do things that you feel most passionate about, only if you treat your precious time by doing things you want to do, then universe will bring you all the things/ people you want/ like, and vice versa 学会把你的各种热情的事项分轻急缓重地去做。永远把时间投入到你有热情的事上,宇宙才会把更多你喜欢做的事分配到你的人生(也包括人),反之亦然。